So I stepped out for myself. Now what??

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Yay you! You did it!   You stood up and stepped up. For yourself.   You said what you needed to say. You did what you needed to do. You behaved like the woman you want to be.   The woman you really are.   Because we are...

Sweet Spots and Peace…

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Not sure where you hang your hat, but here in Canada, it’s our birthday.   I’m in the midst of spending a great long weekend with my family. But I’m also slightly stressed about an upcoming move I’m making that...

It’s time to start believing…

Hey diy ass-kicker!   If you really believed in your right to live your life on your terms, wouldn’t you be doing that?   If you really believed that you were worth putting up with some fear or some discomfort to get what you want, wouldn’t you...

Are you a “yes” girl? Tell the truth now!

Hey diy ass-kicker!   I love saying yes, feeling the freedom of being a yes girl, and living in a world where yes is always possible.   But unless we pay close attention to our what we say yes and no to, being a yes girl can trip us up.   Do you say yes...

Keeping your needs front and center..

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Remember the time that you really wanted to do, have, or be something so bad it would keep you awake at night?   But for whatever reason, even though it seemed perfectly logical at the time, you did nothing about it. Even though your...