How sexy are you feeling today? On a scale of 1-10, where do you feel your sexy?
(Don’t worry, I promise this won’t get weird! 😀)
What does it actually mean to feel sexy?
It’s not about how we look, the partners we can attract or buying clothes that we think make us look sexy. All those things can be fun and fulfilling in different ways, but they aren’t the foundation of feeling sexy.
Your sexy foundation lives in you. It’s the feelings that arise when you live in deep self-acceptance, self-love, and ongoing self-honour.
We all want to feel sexy, right? But sometimes, our feeling of sexy gets lost in the midst of everything else happening around us.
Like when we put others’ needs before our own. (No, that’s not selfish, it’s self-care.)
Like when we don’t use our voices to express our own needs, to ourselves or to others.
Like when we hide the parts of us that we don’t feel great about or that we think others won’t love.
Like when we wait for things to change for us but they stay the same because we stay the same.
Feeling sexy is our birthright as humans, no matter what we look like or what we do.
Everyone wants to feel sexy, and why wouldn’t they? It feels good, yummy even. It feels confident, living with our heads held high and being ok with whatever others may think of us because we know we deserve to feel sexy.
As much as we hope, no one can lay yummy, confident, sexy feelings on us. That’s on us. We get there by exploring what’s working and not working in our lives and where we can fully accept and own our amazingly beautiful bodies, hearts and souls.
Feeling sexy is knowing ourselves well enough to stand up and say what we need.
Feeling sexy is accepting and loving every inch of us, even if we were conditioned to believe that perfection is what’s on the front of magazines.
Feeling sexy is exuding our own confidence and trust in what we know is true for us.
Feeling sexy is taking brave, uncompromised action to create the lives we want. Fly your freak flag, be a nerd, be whatever different you know is real to you. Feeling sexy is being whoever you are without compromise.
Is it time to take your sexy back?
Ps Your sexy never really left you. It’s just been so quiet that you can’t hear it for the need to be someone other than who you know you really are.
It’s time to stop giving up or giving in.
It’s time to pay attention to what you want.
It’s time to take your sexy back.
With so much love for a loud, strong voice!
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