We women hold ourselves to impossible standards.
We do our best to be everything expected of us so we don’t disappoint anyone, even when we know that doing it all leads to our own exhaustion and disempowers others too.
The truth is, women are given such a bad rap about our nurturing and helping superpowers. We are truly expected to do it all.
But we can’t, and we know we can’t. And when we try to do it all, we disempower ourselves even more and rob ourselves of the positive energy flow of speaking our own truth.
But maybe today you can’t say no today, it’s just too hard. That’s ok.
Actually, it’s better than ok. Recognizing the dissonance between speaking for what we know we need is a really great place to begin accepting the voice.
That’s practicing self-awareness, the secret power that we all have. The one that lets us just be ourselves for a time.
It’s magical, really, your quiet space to look at something happening for you without letting anything else bust down the door to your authenticity. It’s where we can envision all that we need in any given moment, debunk the theories of the human sauce, and allow new ways of supporting ourselves to rise up. It’s where we can ask ourselves about our fear of speaking our own truth.
It’s a sacred space that honours you and your healing choices and a great place to go when you need to feel more like yourself.
If you don’t have the words today, you don’t have to jump from where you are now to where you truly want to be. It’s not a race. This is your journey, and you get to make shifts of your own design. Practice means you will get to your own place in your own time, as each shift will create the need for deeper inner reflection and awareness.
Remember, the need to use your voice to say what you need, want, and desire will never go away. But you can try this…
If you have someone you can’t speak up to, share it with me. Hit reply and tell me where you’re holding back and what you need to express to be aligned with yourself. I will receive your message with so much love and compassion. ❤️
And I will also send you whichever Find Your Voice, Save Your Life book you would like. If you already have all 4 books, I will give you a free Voice Activation Call where you can express yourself in person.
Sometimes we just need a bridge to get to where we want to be.
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