Looking Inside

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Truth.   I am in recovery. Recovery from looking outside of myself for direction, validation and worth.   For many years I was eyeballs deep in looking outside of myself. It wasn’t that I didn’t know what I wanted or...

So I stepped out for myself. Now what??

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Yay you! You did it!   You stood up and stepped up. For yourself.   You said what you needed to say. You did what you needed to do. You behaved like the woman you want to be.   The woman you really are.   Because we are...

Sweet Spots and Peace…

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Not sure where you hang your hat, but here in Canada, it’s our birthday.   I’m in the midst of spending a great long weekend with my family. But I’m also slightly stressed about an upcoming move I’m making that...
WTF Is Balance?

WTF Is Balance?

I really hate those contests about women winning balanced life awards. To me, that shit is just one big set up. I mean really, don’t we have enough pressure to be perfect? Perfect daughters, perfect moms, perfect wives, all while being that perfect employee that...