Find Your Voice, Save Your Life 4: Transcendent Men, Real Stories is publishing in just a couple of days!
The vulnerability in these authors is off the charts. And when a man can be vulnerable, he can be his whole self. No hiding behind what someone told him a man “should” do. No falling back on past limiting beliefs. He just gets to be himself.
The cool part about that for women and partners? It’s the relationships that we can have with men who show up as their whole self, especially when we show up as our whole self too.
This book will open us up to possibilities, to heart-made decisions, to respect, and to supportive, loving human connections.
Grab a book on Amazon.ca or Amazon.com, and share it with your friends and relatives. We publish on Tuesday.
Please help us change the world, one book and one relationship at at time!
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It takes a BIG person to accept full responsibility for their own happiness.
It takes an even bigger person to accept full responsibility for their own unhappiness.
But it takes a spiritual giant who, upon realizing any degree of unhappiness, decides to be the change they seek, in spite of having to endure the “same old, same old” that may still linger on for awhile.
Yeah.
The Universe, tut.com
Hey
For years I thought I was just shy, and made so many excuses about why I wouldn’t or couldn’t use my own voice to express my needs.
I didn’t have the confidence. I wasn’t assertive enough. Fill in the blanks…
While I learned much from investigating a ton of resources, and I’m grateful for all that, it wasn’t until I took total responsibility for my life and all it’s experiences, that things began to change. Once I started to function for myself first, I was able to manage my own needs and do it in ways that felt right to me.
I call that kicking my own ass. There is no longer room in my life for someone else calling the shots for me. No longer that space where silence replaces the expression of who I am. No longer the disappointment in myself when I didn’t speak up.
Life is different when we take charge for ourselves, totally different. Will some people not get it? Probably. Will others try to take you down anyway? Likely.
Should you waver from what you know about yourself and what you need to feel fulfilled and content? Big fat NO.
Always. Always. Honour yourself.
Using our voice is not about who we put in their place. It’s not about getting back at others for ignoring our needs. It’s not even about what we actually say.
Using our voice is about knowing exactly who we are and expressing that in ways that match our needs, wants and desires, all in ways that leave us feeling good about the humans we are.
How do you feel about kicking your own ass?
Every single author in each of my 4 Find Your Voice, Save Your Life books has done it. My clients have done it. So many others have too.
What would be different for you if you kicked your own ass too?
You’ve got nothing to lose by trying.
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