So I stepped out for myself. Now what??

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Yay you! You did it!   You stood up and stepped up. For yourself.   You said what you needed to say. You did what you needed to do. You behaved like the woman you want to be.   The woman you really are.   Because we are...

Sweet Spots and Peace…

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Not sure where you hang your hat, but here in Canada, it’s our birthday.   I’m in the midst of spending a great long weekend with my family. But I’m also slightly stressed about an upcoming move I’m making that...
WTF Is Balance?

WTF Is Balance?

I really hate those contests about women winning balanced life awards. To me, that shit is just one big set up. I mean really, don’t we have enough pressure to be perfect? Perfect daughters, perfect moms, perfect wives, all while being that perfect employee that...

It’s time to start believing…

Hey diy ass-kicker!   If you really believed in your right to live your life on your terms, wouldn’t you be doing that?   If you really believed that you were worth putting up with some fear or some discomfort to get what you want, wouldn’t you...