Hello Avoidance. You are my friend, right???

Welcome to the world of avoidance. I was all set to get into explaining about avoidance but realized that you already know all about it. You know what you avoid in your life and, somewhere deep down, you know why. So here is a coaching challenge for you. Write that...

Gentle works too

I decided to use the tag “kicking your own ass” very purposefully. To me it means that we all need to do our own inner work if we want more happy in our lives. After all, if we don’t do it, life will. Women seem drawn to the phrase, but often for the wrong reasons. In...

Small steps to making change in your life

Any true change we make in our life can be fucking hard. Agree? That has certainly been my experience both personally and professionally. Where do you sit with changes or shifts that you know you need or want to make? Are you looking at them straight in the eyes,...

Conflict can be simply a difference of opinion

Hey diy Ass-kickers! Remember that time when you got into an argument with someone, maybe drama ensued, it was horrible and kept you awake at night. Conflict sucks. It sucks because we women are lovers, not fighters. I seriously think it’s not in our DNA to want to...

Being You Again

Hey diy Ass-kickers! I worked with a client once who wanted coaching to help her “get back to being me again”. She was lost in a life full of habits and routine that had her doing things she wasn’t all that happy about doing and not doing the things that she longed to...

There is no power in not being present

Can you say that you are present to what is happening in front of you in the moment 100% of the time? Can you say you are present 75% of the time? Half the time? Or do you suck at being in the moment? It’s hard sometimes to not let your mind wander! Maybe you’re...