Self-rescue and learning from my love

Hey diy Ass-kicker! I was having a chat with my love the other day, you know, one of those wonderful talks over coffee in the wee hours of the morning before anyone gets up and turns on too many lights! My guy is a very sensitive man and we are (for the most part) on...

So who the ‘eff does that?

Hey diy Ass-kicker! I have a good friend who had a nasty break up of her long-term marriage a while ago. She and I spent long hours talking about what had happened and why, looking beyond the pain of the moment to recognize the underlying issues for her, making some...

On not being an asshat in return…

I had an issue with this guy the other day. The circumstances don’t matter, suffice to say that he pissed me right off. I don’t get triggered much these days, thankfully. I would describe myself for the most part as calm and in control of myself. But this dude messed...

It’s Mama’s Day!!

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Congrats Sweetie! It’s your day to be celebrated for all you do as a mom! And I’m guessing you’ve done plenty.   I love Mother’s Day and the chance to express my appreciation and thanks to my own mom, and...