Life or death, it all comes down to us.

Life or death, it all comes down to us.

I am back at my desk after some time off. My dad recently passed away into the next realm, and my deep core told me that I needed the time to process my life with him and how his life ended. The tears have been plenty and the emotions have been all over the map. My...

Just how long is your f-ups list?

Hey diy Ass-kickers! I love reading (and writing) about forgiveness. Forgiveness is an important part of our yummy self-care existence and is something that we all need to get a handle on. Why? Because we all fuck up sometimes. If you’re not making mistakes, you may...

Self-rescue and learning from my love

Hey diy Ass-kicker! I was having a chat with my love the other day, you know, one of those wonderful talks over coffee in the wee hours of the morning before anyone gets up and turns on too many lights! My guy is a very sensitive man and we are (for the most part) on...

So who the ‘eff does that?

Hey diy Ass-kicker! I have a good friend who had a nasty break up of her long-term marriage a while ago. She and I spent long hours talking about what had happened and why, looking beyond the pain of the moment to recognize the underlying issues for her, making some...