Looking Inside

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Truth.   I am in recovery. Recovery from looking outside of myself for direction, validation and worth.   For many years I was eyeballs deep in looking outside of myself. It wasn’t that I didn’t know what I wanted or...

So I stepped out for myself. Now what??

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Yay you! You did it!   You stood up and stepped up. For yourself.   You said what you needed to say. You did what you needed to do. You behaved like the woman you want to be.   The woman you really are.   Because we are...

It’s time to start believing…

Hey diy ass-kicker!   If you really believed in your right to live your life on your terms, wouldn’t you be doing that?   If you really believed that you were worth putting up with some fear or some discomfort to get what you want, wouldn’t you...

Keeping your needs front and center..

Hey diy ass-kicker!   Remember the time that you really wanted to do, have, or be something so bad it would keep you awake at night?   But for whatever reason, even though it seemed perfectly logical at the time, you did nothing about it. Even though your...

The ease of letting go…

Hey diy Ass-kickers!   When was the last time you felt all tied up in knots over a situation in your life?    Stressful situations and circumstances scream for a resolution, a fixing of the problem. And as women, there isn’t much we do better than...