Don’t wait, friend!

Don’t wait, friend!

Can you relate to any of these? “If I get that new job, then I will be happy.” “If I could just find a partner who loves me, then my world would be complete.” “If I didn’t have so much to do, then I could work on myself.” My...
Fun-shit loving anyone?

Fun-shit loving anyone?

How are you at doing fun shit? Ok, profanity warning here…but that shouldn’t be a surprise when it comes from me, the self-professed potty mouth. I absolutely love doing fun shit.  It’s that stupid, absolutely mindless stuff that’s the only...
Choosing you is self love

Choosing you is self love

Choose you.  That’s the message I give to my daughters, my sisters, my friends.  It’s that important. Choosing you is about learning to love yourself unconditionally.  That crazy no-holds-barred, I-would-trade-myself-for-you-in-a-hostage-situation kind of love.  That...
Just gimme a sec!

Just gimme a sec!

Do you ever get caught in those uncomfortable moments when you feel like you’re put on the spot to say something? Give an answer? It’s like getting “cornered” into responding. And for some strange reason, even as we are under pressure to say something, it’s always...
I’m not sorry

I’m not sorry

I was raised a good girl. Chances are, you were too. Good girls don’t talk back, follow the rules, and are…well…good. We all walk away from our kid lives with a wound or too. And most of us can process our history well enough to at least understand it. But having it...