Did you realize that peace, love, and joy are identified as levels of consciousness, only behind enlightenment, on the Map of Consciousness developed by David R Hawkins?
Hold the phone … aren’t peace, love, and joy the big 3 feels over the holidays, the feelings we all look forward to as we gear up for the big day? Since the holidays are right around the corner, clearly Mr Hawkins was on to something.
We can have a conscious holiday!!
I just finished getting out all my Christmas decorations. I love this job, even if it takes me forever to get everything placed and set up. I love the fun of finding things that I’d forgotten I had, the reminders of the look on my mom’s face when she would pull out the same items from the boxes so many years ago, and seeing how great the house looks with all those amazing lights.
When I’m knee-deep in boxes that make me smile wide, I’m reminded that the holidays don’t always go as well as we’d like them to. I’d say that it’s not for lack of trying, but I would be lying. People often don’t have a great holiday season because they’re not using their voice.
We often think of using our voices simply to stand up for ourselves with people who take advantage of us or don’t allow us to be heard, and it certainly is about addressing those things that silence us. But if we just fire away at people because they have crossed our boundaries we’re not going to get to that place of peace, love, and joy, we’ll only feel short-term vindication. If we want to seriously experience the cozy blanket of peace, love, and joy, we gotta manage our experiences from the inside.
Levels of consciousness are connected to vibrational frequency, which Mr Hawkins is actually measuring on his map. Peace, love, and joy, are equated with the highest frequencies. They are also equated with feeling good, really good. Think about it, how do you feel when peace, love and joy come over you?
In order to get there, we need to take charge of our holidays, from the inside out, with conscious awareness of what we need to think, be, and do, that bring us peace, love, and joy.
Not so simple, you say? The holidays are stressful, you say? You end up exhausted, you say?
Focusing on those things will definitely keep your vibration lower! Let’s take responsibility for our own holiday experience and our vibration by raising the bar, baby!
Let your inner self be the test of what leaves you feeling truly complete in peace, love and joy. From a practical perspective, set a goal to experience the three big feels of peace, love, and joy, and arrange your holiday accordingly. Try these…
Say no thank you to perfection. Say yes to surrendering to the feels over needing to be good enough.
Say no thank you to exhaustion. Say yes to offering yourself the rest you need and asking for help.
Say no thank you to comparing your holiday decor choices to anyone else, say yes to decorating to your own happy.
Say no thank you to overspending your budget. Say yes to no stress when the credit card bill arrives in January.
Say no thank you to negativity and judgement. Say yes to leading with pure love.
Say yes to yourself. Not only will you and your holiday feel those feels and so much more, but those around you will feel them too.
Only you can make all this happen. Look inside. Get quiet with yourself and determine what is truly important to your higher self. Write that shit down. Your higher self doesn’t want you to crawl into bed for a week after the holidays are over, they just want you to have a happy, peaceful, joyful, and loving holiday. And isn’t that what you want for the holidays too?
Once again, I’m sharing My No-Bull Holiday Workbook with you to help you figure out your holiday season in a big way. Even if you have done it before, it’s one to do again each year as a reminder of the kind of high vibe holiday you can indeed have!
Have questions? Hit reply and I’m on it with a ho, ho, ho. 🙂
Much holiday love!
My Read & Heal Recommended Reading List
Wealth Codes by Jen Piceno
Wealth is so much more than having more money. This book combines ancient wisdom and magic with practical strategies for a more complete, holistic, and effective toolkit. Get ready to look at your wealth goals with a new, fresh, and profoundly powerful perspective.
Find it here: https://amzn.to/49RNoTU
My own FYV books, written to heal the writer and the reader.
Find Your Voice, Save Your Life: Powerful Women, Real Stories
Find Your Voice, Save Your Life 2: Powerful Women, Real Stories
Find Your Voice, Save Your Life 3: Powerful Healers, Spiritual Stories
Find Your Voice, Save Your Life 4: Transcendent Men, Real Stories (now on Audible too)
Amazon link This link is for Amazon.com but all 4 books are also on Amazon.ca
