I promise you. Your life will change completely when you start saying YES to yourself.
Why?
First, because you were not meant to be unfulfilled. You were not meant to be kept small or unhappy. You were not meant to be silenced.
Second, your life will change completely because you are here to get your needs fully met. Not to roll around in the weeds trying to figure out what to do to get out, but to make yourself strong, healthy and looking for more joy.
And third, your life will change because your purpose in this world includes supporting people to experience life as they are meant to. Do you recognize that calling you have as a natural nurturer? Sometimes it can get mixed up with needing to save others, but it’s really about lovingly teaching them that they are whole and can handle the path in front of them, including getting their own needs met.
You know how it goes for us sometimes. We get stuck in saying NO more than we say YES.
We don’t often say NO to others, but we certainly say it to ourselves. We say NO to giving ourselves what we need to feel aligned with who we are. We say NO to things that support our health and our happiness. We say NO to what we need.
NO should be reserved for things that come across our paths that don’t serve us or align us with our deep core.
YES should be reserved for all things that do serve us and align us to our deep core and our whole, true selves.
Because when you are getting your needs met, you are charged up. You are energized, your body is functioning better, and you feel the flow of life going in the right direction.
You will feel better. Your relationships will feel better. Instead of being silent, you will be using your voice to add more and more joy to your life. Instead of being in the darkness, you will be in the light.
And the Universe will take notice and respond. Your messages about what you want in your life will be that much clearer, you will be manifesting from a place of abundance over lack, and you will be happily shifting in ways that show the Universe what’s important to you.
That’s how it works for me.
Saying hell YES changed my relationship with myself and the Universe. Does it mean saying NO to things that don’t fit? Of course it does. But planning from the YES is where to begin.
So on this Canadian Thanksgiving weekend, the one where we all take the time to be grateful for the abundance of joy and love in our lives, what are you going to do to start saying YES to yourself and up your game?
You truly will never be the same.
Dianna xo
