You’re gonna need to do this

You’re gonna need to do this

One of the first things I learned when I started to use my voice was to redirect responsibility. I was basing my decisions on what I knew would please others without looking inside at what would please me. When things didn’t work out, I blamed them for what was...
Are you the bigger person? Hope not.

Are you the bigger person? Hope not.

Have you ever been in a situation that you were uncomfortable with, but were worried that you would hurt someone’s feelings if you spoke up? And then you sucked it up because, well, you just couldn’t hurt them. But you keep sweating it, feeling badly because nothing...
Allowing yourself to receive

Allowing yourself to receive

As a sister, daughter, wife and mom, I did my time thinking that my sole job was to give to others. Gifts, time, energy, shoulder to cry on and the tissues to wipe the tears away, they were all things that I thought I had to give. Receiving has always been hard for...
Going ape-shit over New Years resolutions

Going ape-shit over New Years resolutions

How did the holiday go? Relative to the whole “what I want to feel thing”? Did you identify how you wanted to feel during the holiday? And were you able to direct your actions to things that bring you those feelings? You know you can hit reply and tell me how it went....